Zhajiangmian and jajangmyeon // introspecting over noodles
Like a lot of folks, I’m sure, B2 and I began as a fling. We were summer associates (or, baby interns) at our future Manhattan law firms, about to head back to our last year of law school; I was about to spend half of it in Hong Kong, and he was staying in Boston, and we had no idea where we were headed as a couple (and, wait, were we a couple?) But then, sitting on a patio at an Italian restaurant in the East Village on one of our first actual dates, I asked B2 over a plate of squid ink spaghetti where he saw himself in five years. Still in New York, or somewhere else? (I did not win any awards for creative early-dating conversation.) Somewhere closer to home, he told me. Maybe not Hawaii just yet, but California would be nice. Just to be closer to family. I remember this answer so clearly, because I saw myself in California, too; I wanted to be closer to my family, too. It was the first time we talked seriously about the things we cared about, family most of all, and to hear him say that something mattered to him that also mattered so much to me was when our nascent relationship began to feel real. Also, the thought of eventually moving to Hawaii did not hurt.
Four years later, in a rare case of Things Actually Going According to Plan, here we are in California. In the same way that we both valued our families, B2 and I have, implicitly, always wanted a family of our own — so it’s fitting that our tiny B3, currently hiccuping somewhere around my right hipbone, was what finally made us move closer to our families like we both planned to years ago. Every month that went by in New York made it harder for us to imagine really taking the bar again and really starting new jobs (or, in my case, just a new office) and really moving all the way across the country, even though B2 was at a loathsome firm that consumed almost all his waking hours, even though New York often didn’t feel sustainable. And then this little being came along, and finally woke us up from the inertia of the flawed but familiar. B3 would have been something to celebrate no matter when he came along, and the indescribable happiness that he has brought so far is, I’m sure, only a little bit of what is to come. But, on top of all that, he’s also the reason we followed through on plans that we wanted all along to follow; he has buoyed us through the stress of our old jobs and the transition to our new ones, all the things that come with uprooting ourselves and moving to a city we hardly know, and he doesn’t even know it yet.
And still, as convinced as we are that this little one is the best thing that could have happened to us, an unexpected nostalgia has made its way in. I know this is common, and I’m far, far from the first person to have felt it, but it’s an odd set of feelings to juggle. We’ve been so elated at the thought of B3, and he’s been the herald of so many good things even other than his little self, that I think I’ve been wont to forget how good we did have it even before he came along. I recognize I’m growing horribly sappy (and I’m aware I may be the only one reading this, at this point), B2 is, after all, my favorite person. On quiet nights with him on the couch, or in bed a lazy hour after we should have gotten up in the morning, I’ve been a little more wistful lately for this “just us” time, these moments when I don’t yet have to share him with anyone else. It reminds me that, although we’ve always wanted this little family, that we do love this other life, the one with outdoor patio dates and ruminating about where we’ll be in five years.
So, both to soak up the remaining time we have as just two red bowls, but to celebrate our mini-bowl, too, I wanted to make something that I thought summed up the two of us. These two recipes are different, but related, halves of a whole. One, zhajiangmian, is the Chinese version and the one I grew up eating, tweaked and concocted by my mother to her tried-and-true recipe; the other is jajangmyeon, a Korean adaptation of zhajiangmian that B2 grew up with, and his favorite thing to order at cozy family dinners out at a Chinese-Korean restaurant they love in Honolulu. Both renditions are based in chewy, pliant noodles under a flavorful bean-based sauce, but where zhajiangmian sauce is more of a thick, ground meat bolognese made from tianmianjiang, or sweet bean sauce, jajangmyeon sauce is shiny and viscous, cloaking cabbage, onions, and diced pork in a sauce made from a tangier Korean chunjang, or black bean paste. Each is nostalgic for both of us, rooted in our families. It’s the kind of his-and-hers dish that I thought would be perfect for a date night to appreciate each other, and continue over noodles a relationship that might just have begun over noodles in the East Village. Whichever version you make, I hope you enjoy it as much as we did.
(P.S. If jajangmyeon is a Korean interpretation of something originally Chinese, does that make it the noodle incarnation of half-Chinese, quarter-Korean B3? I don’t know where the quarter-Irish goes in this analogy.)
- 2-3 tbsp dried shrimp (without shells; see Notes)
- 1-2 tsp vegetable or other neutral oil
- 1/4 cup sliced green onions
- 1 tsp minced garlic (about 1 large garlic clove)
- 1/2 tsp finely grated ginger
- 1/2 lb ground pork or beef
- 1 tsp rice wine or sake
- 6 tbsp sweet bean paste (tian mian jiang)
- 2 tbsp peanut butter
- 1-2 tbsp spicy doubanjiang (spicy chili broad bean paste)
- 1 lb fresh Chinese or Korean wheat noodles (see Notes)
- 1. At least an hour ahead, soak the dried shrimp in a small bowl of warm water (enough to submerge the shrimp fully) to soften them and better release their flavor.
- 2. Bring a large pot of water to boil for the noodles. Meanwhile, make the sauce: Heat a few teaspoons of oil -- just enough to coat the skillet or wok -- until shimmering. Add the green onions, minced garlic, and ginger, and sauté briefly for 5-10 seconds, then add the ground pork and rice wine and continue to cook, stirring to break up large chunks, until the ground pork is cooked through.
- 3. Add the sweet bean paste, peanut butter, and broad bean paste and continue to stirfry until smooth. You may want to add a tablespoon or two of water to thin the meat sauce to your liking. Turn the heat to its lowest setting to keep the sauce warm, or remove from heat and set aside while you finish cooking the noodles.
- 4. When the water comes to a boil, add the noodles and cook according to package directions. Usually I find that fresh varieties cook in no more than a few minutes. Drain and rinse the noodles to get rid of excess starch and to make them a bit chewier. Divide evenly between three or four bowls, top with the zhajiang sauce and julienned cucumber (if desired), and enjoy immediately.
- Both zhajiangmian and jajangmyeon will require specialty ingredients that may be a little hard to find, with zhajiangmian a bit more involved than its Korean counterpart. If you can't find tianmianjiang, or "sweet bean sauce" (also sometimes "sweet flour sauce"), you can try hoisin sauce instead, though it will be a bit sweeter. My mother likes to depart from traditional zhajiangmian and adds peanut butter to her recipe, which adds a creamy sweetness, reminiscent of sesame noodles, that I love.
- If you can't find dried shrimp, a few ounces of fresh, raw shrimp will work well, too -- just add them when you add the pork and cook until pink. Shell-on dried shrimp is not ideal here.
- On noodles: Most any fresh Chinese or Korean noodles will work here, and even spaghetti, in a pinch. Our favorite kind looks like this -- tinged a bit yellow, square-cut, and packaged in bundles. The noodles above are not this version (I was led astray, alas, by a sale.)
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- 1 lb fresh Chinese or Korean wheat noodles (see Notes)
- 2 tbsp vegetable or other neutral oil
- 1/3 cup Korean black bean paste (chunjang or jjajang)
- 1 tbsp sugar
- 1/2 lb (8 oz) pork loin, diced
- 1 tbsp rice wine or sake
- 1 tsp minced garlic (about 1 large garlic clove)
- 1/2 tsp finely grated ginger
- salt and pepper, to taste
- 1 large onion, diced
- 1/2 head cabbage, chopped (about 4 cups)
- 1 cup chicken stock (or water)
- 1 tbsp corn starch or potato starch, dissolved in 1/4 cup of water
- julienned cucumber, for garnish (optional)
- Korean red pepper powder (gochugaru), for serving (optional)
- 1. Bring a large pot of water to boil for the noodles. Meanwhile, make the sauce: Heat the oil in a small saucepan over medium-high heat until shimmering. Add the black bean paste and sugar and stir to combine. Fry the paste for 2-3 minutes, stirring constantly. Drain the oil from the paste and reserve to use with the pork; set the paste aside.
- 2. Heat the oil again in a large skillet or wok. Add the diced pork loin, rice wine, garlic, ginger, and a gentle seasoning of salt and pepper to the pan, and cook until no longer pink. Add the onion and cabbage, then continue to cook until the vegetables just begin to soften, a minute or two.
- 3. Add back the black bean paste and stir until the vegetables and pork are coated. Add 1 cup water and let simmer for 3-4 minutes. Add the cornstarch slurry and stir to combine, then cook for 1-2 minutes longer, or until sauce thickens. Turn the heat to its lowest setting while you make the noodles.
- 4. Once the water comes to a boil, prepare the noodles as directed on the package. Usually, fresh noodles take no more than a few minutes to cook. Drain and rinse well to remove excess starch and make the noodles a bit chewier. Divide between three to four bowls, and divide the sauce over top. Serve with julienned cucumber on top and red pepper powder on the side. Enjoy immediately.
- On noodles: Most any fresh Chinese or Korean noodles will work here, and even spaghetti, in a pinch. Our favorite kind looks like this -- tinged a bit yellow, square-cut, and packaged in bundles. The noodles above are not this version (I was led astray, alas, by a sale.)
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